
Bluntness and sincerity are the cornerstones of most
relationships. Talking candidly and honestly about s.εx,
passion, commitment, and one’s aspirations for the
future helps it grow into a long lasting union.
However, there are some questions that a man never
wants to hear come out of his woman’s mouth.
These are questions that are irrelevant in the
relationship yet women insist on asking them.
Tell me about your ex
As might be expected, the topic of the ex is bound to
come up at some point in the relationship. It is okay to
ask why they broke up and whether they are still friends.
This conversation becomes dangerous when you start
obsessing over it and ask questions like ‘is she hotter
than me’ or ‘between me and her, who is the better
kisser’. When you constantly bring up his ex, you come
across as hopelessly insecure.
How many lovers have you had
Nothing positive can come out of this one. Whatever he
did in his past is between him and his conscience.
Questions about numbers only beget more questions and
create more insecurity. It is none of your business how
many women he has slept with. The only thing you need
to know about his sexual past is whether he’s disease
free. ‘How many women have you had s’εx with is blond.
What should bother you is, “Do you have an STD”
I’m I the best you have ever had
It sounds sεxy and seductive when you ask, but you only
reek more of your insecurities. Chances are, you are not
the best he has ever had and hearing him say that will
demoralise you. Most men won’t come right out and say
it, so you end up putting him in a difficult situation
where he has to lie because he wants you to feel
confident and beautiful on a daily basis.
Do you love me
If a man truly loves you, he will let you know. Asking
him this question puts him on the spot and he will most
likely lie to avoid hurting your feelings or tell you the
truth and hurt your feelings. Either way, the outcome is
undesirable. Those three little words should not be forced
out of someone. Men do not always wear their emotions
on their sleeves but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t love
you.
Do you see a future with me
This question is perfectly appropriate and even
important to ask after you have been dating for a while.
The timing makes all the difference. Needless to say,
there is a problem with asking this question early on in
the relationship. There is a big chance that you will just
scare him off if you begin addressing the “serious” issues
before you are far enough into the relationship.
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